The Baby Name Wizard

Ah, you want to name your new daughter after Grandpa Chuck (Charles).  No problem, options abound!  The French versions Charlotte and Caroline are the current favorites, but you can suit almost any taste with variations like Carla, Carly, Carol, Carolina, Carolyn, Carrie, Charla, Charlene, Charlize and Charlie.

Don't get too comfortable, though -- that one was just a warmup.  Suppose Grandpa is named Tom? Or Jim? Or Fred, or Ben, or...you get the picture.  Not every classic male name is blessed with a smorgasbord of feminine equivalents.  Once upon a time, though, the answer for all those namesake challenges would have been easy: just take a diminutive form of the male name and you're good to go.  In the early decades of the 20th Century, girls' names like Tommie, Jimmie, Freddie and Bennie abounded.

Today, though, parents are less eager for their little girls to sound like little boys.  (Today's androgynous girls' names sound more like grown men.)  So the typical response to cross-gender namesake troubles is to trim the honoree's name down to an initial.  Grandpa Tom gives rise to little Tatum, and we say "close enough."  But what if you want to get even closer?  Here's my starter list of creative choices for tough cross-gender namesake challenges.  All derive from the same name root as the original.  Can you think of more?


David: Davina (Scottish derivative of David, familiar throughout the U.K.)
Gregory: Greer (Surname derived from Gregor, the Scottish form of Gregory)
Matthew: Matea/Mattea (Occasional Spanish/Italian feminine form)
Philip: Pippa (English nickname for Philippa)
Thomas: Tamsin (An old nickname for Thomasina that's been revived in the U.K. in the past 20 years)

...and one the other way:

Jennifer: Wynn (Form of the Welsh root Gwyn, as in Guinevere.  Jennifer is the Cornish form of Guinevere.)

Last February I talked about the emerging style of updating trendy names by lopping off their initial consonants.  Madison-->Addison is the queen of the genre, and this past year has brought Addison a new little sister.  Twin sisters, really.  Meet Adalyn and Adelyn, both of whom debuted in the top-1000 list in 2007.

You could argue that Adelyn is a variant of Adeline, but I don't think that name has reached spinoff-level popularity.  I see Adelyn as a headless remix of Madalyn, Madeline, Madelyn and the five other spellings of that name in the top 1000 -- with a splash of inspiration from Addison.

Another name in the original "Off with their heads" post also deserves an update.  I mentioned Aylin as a fast-rising girl's name modeled on the likes of Kaylin and pronounced with a long A, "AY-lin."  Dr. Cleveland Kent Evans wrote in with an alternate interpretation of the name:

I don't think that most of the babies now being named Aylin are being pronounced to rhyme with Kaylin. Instead I believe the great majority of them are Hispanic and the name is just a Hispanic respelling of Eileen.

And reader Leila chimed in with yet a third version:

Aylin is a Turkish name that is relatively popular in Turkey. It's pronounced Eye-lin.

One spelling, three suggested pronunciations and ethnic identities.  And they're all right.

Aylin (EYE-lin) is a familiar woman's name in Turkey.  Turkish name statistics are hard to come by, but there seem to be Aylins of all ages with a slight peak at ages 25-40.

Aylin (eye-LEEN) is a Latina name that was rare in the U.S. until about 1995, when actress Aylín Mujica first appeared in telenovelas.  That wave of Latina Aylins peaked around 1997-98 and has leveled off since.

And Aylin (AY-lin) is a contemporary American creation.  It's a slimmed-down Kaitlyn, a feminized Aidan, and a rhyming sensation.  16 names rhyming with AY-lin made the girls' top 1000 last year, with 8 more on the boys' list.

Today, Aylin has surpassed its original '90s U.S. popularity peak.  A modest, steady base of Latina Aylins (and a handful of Turkish Aylins) has been joined by an exploding population of Anglo Aylins.  So if you have to guess at a pronunciation, you could try basing  it on age: call a toddler AY-lin, a 10-year-old eye-LEEN, and a 30-year-old EYE-lin?  Nah, it's safest just to ask.

A followup to the recent Baby Name Pool results:

This year's champion, the only entrant to tab both the #1 and #2 hottest rising names of the year (Miley and Kingston), is Eric E.of San Diego, California.  He's the father of 18-month-old Paige Sofia, but his Pool choices were based more on pop culture than the baby names he sees around him.  Eric and his wife were having a friendly competition trying to come up with names to enter, and when he suggested Kingston, they both thought it sounded like a winner:

"I thought Kingston was one of those names people would gravitate toward. It's not too far out there (think Moses or Apple), but is still unique. Plus Gwen's [Stefani] got the cool, hip, mom thing people seem to love these days."

Congratulations again to Eric.  And on a personal note, wish this Baby Name Wizard luck that pregnant stylemaker Gwen Stefani has her second child before my book manuscript is due!

Most parenting tasks get easier with experience. Those baby bathtubs and 100-snap pj's don't look nearly so intimidating the second time around. But one key parenting challenge actually gets harder with baby #2, and even harder with #3, 4 and beyond: choosing a name.

Perhaps you used the only two girls' names you could agree on for your daughter's first and middle names. Or your son is named Mason, ruling out Cason...and Macy. Or maybe, once you named two girls Gabriella and Isabella, you felt the need to stick to flowing, feminine names for girl #3 so she wouldn't feel too different from her sisters. Each name you choose shrinks your universe of future options.

So imagine the challenge facing the Duggar family of Arkansas, expecting their 18th child. The first 17 all have names starting with J, which defines their universe of options as J names that won't be confused with...

Jackson
James
Jana
Jason
Jedidiah
Jennifer
Jeremiah
Jessa
Jill
Jinger
Johannah
John-David
Joseph
Joshua
Josiah
Joy-Anna
Justin

This seemed like a perfect challenge for my NameMatchmaker, the name-savvy program I use to help choose sibling name suggestions for the Baby Name Wizard book. Revving up the program, it quickly became clear that the Duggars' divergent approaches to boys' and girls' names would be a stumbling block. Faced with reconciling Joshua and Jeremiah with Jinger and Jessa, my NameMatchmaker got a little depressed. When I stuck to boys, though, things looked brighter. After tweaking some settings in the Matchmaker, these are the best bets:

1. Jared
2. Jacob
3. Joel
4. Jonas
5. Jaron
6. Japheth
7. Jericho
8. Judah
9. Jefferson

As for girls...tough call. Ruling out names starting with Jan-, Jill-, Jess- and Jen- plus feminine versions of the boys' names limits your options, while ruling in creative spellings and neologisms makes everything more unpredictable. Here's what the Matchmaker ultimately came up with:

1. Jeanna
2. Jodie
3. Jeannine
4. Jemima
5. Julianne
6. Jocelyn
7. Jordana
8. Jaclyn
9. Jerusha

As I say, a tough call. And naturally, choosing names is the least of the many challenges of raising 18 children. But it's a compelling challenge for name-loving people. Can you come up with your own list of names you'd pick for 18 kids...remembering that you pick names one at a time, assuming each may be your last?

Most years, you can pull together a competive entry in the Baby Name Pool in a lot of different ways.  This year, though, one name crushed all others in its mighty paw.  The name Miley scored so high -- coming out of nowhere to rank #278 -- that anybody with a Miley-free ballot was out of the running.  Luckily, 43 eagle-eyed name spotters did pick Miley, making this a high-scoring and competitive pool.

The top scorer had a powerful 1-2 punch of Miley and Kingston, putting him out of reach of the rest of the field.  Yes that's right, him.  The #1 namer of the year, "Eric," is one of our esteemed male readers.  (Tell that to the men in your life, and maybe their competitive spirit will drive them to enter next year!)  I'd love to tell you more about him, but he's...shy.  Or enigmatic.  Or maybe playing hard to get?  OK, OK, he's just not answering my emails.  Regardless, a big round of applause for our mystery man.

The second-place honors go a reader who blew away the field with her "falling" picks.  Picking falling names is a tricky business.  Unlike the fast risers, you can't count on the headlines.  (Think of how the name Katrina rose after the hurricane.)  You have to tease out something subtler: what people aren't talking about.  Reader "Blythe" tabbed Talan and Akeelah, the #1 and #2 fastest falling names of the year -- the only one of 500 entrants to pick either of them!  Another round of applause, if you please.

And now, on to 2008.  I don't know about you, but I'm already looking out for this year's likeliest big movers.  Any early ideas?