Sister-in-law's new boyfriend is named our favorite name :(
first time poster and need your help! I'm mom to Nicholas (we call him Nick) and expecting another son in just a few weeks. My husband and I chose the name Benjamin (Ben) as soon as we found it was a boy (in March). Fast forward to end of April, my husband's sister started dating a guy named Ben. We had chosen this name before he was in the picture but no one in the family knows this because we keep names a secret until our children are born. There's no telling this relationship will last, it's 50/50 at this point, but they will have been dating for four months at the most when our son is born. Can we still use the name? we can't find any other name that we love as much. Help!! Thanks.
Thu, 07/23/2015 - 7:20pm