Catholic mom of seven.
I second the vote for Jay!
Elizabeth and Charlotte are lovely names for sisters!
Maybe silly is the wrong word. I think she finds it too personal. She always introduces herself by her full name. Recently she was given a soccer ball and since Katharine seemed too long to write on it, I suggested Kat. She was horrified and had me write Kate even though no one ever calls her that. I've been pointing out real life Kats in the hopes she'll be more comfortable using it if she wants.
Congrats on another well-named baby!
I read them the exact same was as the other responses. I'd go with Sofianne!
Yeah its number 4 in my state which isn't ideal but James is pretty popular as well. I passed on Grace in part because of popularity and I wished I hadn't.
I do like the idea that Henry unifies our girls names with our boys!
I should clarify that my husband really likes Peter and Gabriel. Beyond just fitting the theme these are the names he's pick to use. And I see the appeal behind these names particularly Peter which 15 years ago was on our list for our first son. I'm just not loving it. It's more of the question do I break the theme to use a name I love or stick with the theme and use one of the names my husband loves (though he doesn't love them quite to the extent I love Henry.)
Peter frequently feels like its the "right name" but I haven't been sure if that is because it's meant to be or just because thematically it fits into place perfectly. When pulled out on it's own I definitely prefer Henry to all other names. In school he'll mostly be known in isolation or as @ndrew's little brother.
For sure, there have frequently been names one of us likes more than the other. My husband in fact made the same point as you that as this is our fifth boy to name having us both adore his name is much harder.
His initial response to Henry was more of a strong dislike (he didn't like the Henry VIII association or the silly song) which neither of us had with the other kids' names. He has mellowed though towards the name though but I know I've pushed him this time.
The difficulties with being an older pregnant mom has definitely made me feel like maybe it's not crazy that I should get more of a vote in the baby's name.
Just wanted to update you guys and get some more feedback. We're still basically deciding between Peter and Gabriel - with occasional talk of Jude (and I still crush on Henry from time to time but my husband isn't a fan).
Instead of using Thomas as a middle name for Gabriel I've been thinking it would be nice to use a family name from my mother's side. If we go with Peter we are thinking we'll pick Gregory (my mother's brother who died in the Korean War), but that won't work with Gabriel. So our top contenders are Timothy (my maternal grandfather) or Anthony (after my maternal grandmother Antoinette). My middle name is Antoinette after the same grandmother. Any pros and cons of Anthony vs Timothy as a middle name? Or should we stick to Thomas which is a mutual favorite name that we both don't care to use as a first name because of how it flows with our last name? A couple of our kids have family names while most don't so there isn't really a precedent one way or the other.
This site lets you enter in a lot of names http://www.magicbabynames.com/?name= although I'll be honest I sometimes feel that no matter what names I enter I get pretty similar results.
Those are gorgeous names!
I was on retreat this weekend and the priest referred to St. Ephrem the Syrian and pronounced it just as you described with the long E and 2-syllables. I immediately thought of this thread!
I had thought the combo Gabriel Peter or even brothers Gabriel and Peter might be too close to the singer Peter Gabriel.
One combo we had been thinking about is Gabriel Thomas. We both love the name Thomas but because of our last name we've never used it as a first name. I still hesitate just a bit about not saving it for a first name especially as it meets the requirements of a unique initial and classic New Testament name, but as my husband points out if we've not used it for 5 boys then it seems silly to keep saving it.
I have talked to them. My oldest doesn't really admit to caring but I got the idea he thought it was sort of sweet to share. James was also enthusiastic. M@rk firmly doesn't want to share so it's a good thing we aren't aiming for Matthew.
Cl@re thinks each kid should get their own initial but she really likes Gabe so there is a definite bias.
That is so hard to predict! We call James Jay about 1/2 the time. K@th@rine was suppose to be Kate but never has been with Kat and Kitty the current nicknames and her full name being used plenty. My youngest son is frequently Boo or Roo to most everyone in the family but he will grow out of those names. I am currently the only one whoever calls him Drew which is the nickname we had discussed before he was born.
My husband adores nicknames but not Gabe. He says he plans on using they full name but I wouldn't be surprised if he landed on something silly to call him as a little boy. I think the other kids and I will call him Gabe and that may grow on my husband. Or I could pick up on using the full name as I did with K@th@rine.
When we began calling K@th@rine by her full name I did mix up my girls and call them Clatharine for about a year but then never again. I will occasionally now refer to one of my younger boys as Anjay - combing Andrew and Jay. I've never had any issues with Mark and Cl@re's names, but like you I am quite likely just to call any child by the wrong name entirely.
I'm familiar with the name Ephrem from St. Ephrem the Syrian (love him!) so that spelling wouldn't surprise me. I always pronounced it the same as Ephraim (maybe I've been wrong). I would have a harder time adjusting to the "long e" pronunciation. However, I do think you are right with a lesser known name it's easier to "teach" people the spelling and pronuncation.
If it doesn't bother you or your husband, then I would go for it. Hayden and Everly are a great pair. You aren't using the exact same name as your niece just names that share the same potential nickname. I named my son Andrew and my only nephew on my side is Alexander exclusively nicknamed Anders. Yes, my mom will mix up Anders and Andrew especially if she's just visited with one side of the family. I'm sure my sister wasn't hoping we'd go with Andrew but in the grand scheme of things cousins with similar names is no big deal. Of course I know my sister's personality and thankfully she's definitley not the type to throw a fit.