Depressed mum of little cute poor miss eden.

When you are in love, no matter what is happening and not important other people's idea. I was in love of name" eden". I put pressure on everybody around me that it should be the only name. Doesnt matter even unisex name.. ohhh my god, after registeration... and after seeing some boys with mybaby girls's name.. I am ruining everyday, down the well every time.. now the unisex name is a big matter for me... I hate of a unisex name for my daughter.. 

However I know her name is more used for girls.


help me please.


March 3, 2015 8:54 AM

What is the problem with an unisex name, especially one that leans more girl anyway?

If you want a definate feminine name, maybe Edith?
Adana? Place name, but it sounds alike. 

Edit: Where are you from? I ask because I saw you suggest Majid which is an Arabic name, and I happen to know much of Arabic names, if you want a name from that origin. 

March 4, 2015 11:02 PM

So, I think you can do a couple of things.

You can change her name.

Or you could remind yourself of all the things you like about Eden as a name.  What attracted you to it, what feelings does it give you, what made it seem perfect for your daughter, that kind of thing.  If you're focused only on the aspect that is bothering you, that aspect will loom larger in your mind.  (I had to do this for my son's name, because I have an ex with that name, and I had to kind of get past it.) 

The way you describe how you are feeling sounds like -- as you say -- depression, probably anxiety, too.  I hope you have good people around you who can help you.