I'm having second thoughts...
A while ago we managed to select two possible names for our baby girl, either Avis nn Birdie or Vesper. But the past two or three days, I've begun to have second thoughts concerning them both. I wasn't at all too keen on saint names for our baby, which my partner was pressing for, but now I find myself crushing on Dorothy nn Dot. I honestly don't know anymore which way to go.
It seems as though the more I love names, the harder it is for me to choose, and when I do, I keep thinking, but what about all of the other beautiful names out there?
I really love Avis and Vesper, they're the V names I wanted so much and I think they have a sort of film noir flare that appeals to me. The downside I think is that they've started feeling androgynous, and that's not really my overall style or preference. The other downside is that they are quite difficult for our family members to pronounce or recognize as names. Most female names in Spanish or Italian end with -a.
Have any of you ever felt this way? How were you able to finally decide? And once again, what do you think of each of these names?
A part of me feels like I should keep looking for the perfect name.
Thu, 01/28/2016 - 10:32pm